Alan Jackson’s Daughter Reveals The Truth About Her Dad

The man who often prides himself on putting his family first and foremost was taken aback by his middle child Ali, who went on social media to tell the truth about her father.

But what could she possibly reveal that the public doesn’t know? The family has faced many trials and tribulations, and she’s decided to come clean.

With 17 American Country Music awards, 35 number one singles, and 14 albums that topped charts outstandingly, it is no surprise that Alan Jackson has been named one of the most popular country music stars of his generation.

But there is more to the Georgia native than selling over 80 million records worldwide – and no, we are not talking about his rather peculiar choice of  favorite sandwich, which includes pineapple and mayonnaise. We are talking about what happens the minute Jackson walks off stage.

Born in Newnan, Georgia, Jackson was the only boy among five children in total. Growing up with four sisters taught the man plenty about respecting women and how to act around them, as well as how one should stand their ground when living in a crowded household.

Alan also attended church from a very young age, since his parents were devoted Christians who wanted their child to be brought up in an environment that nurtures faith and is God-abiding.

Going to church every Sunday not only caused Alan to be a man of faith, but also granted him the opportunity to sing, something he enjoyed doing but never gave too much thought to.

However, belting out songs was not something Alan considered to be a long-term affair, and did not see himself heading down the path of becoming a professional musician. His childhood home was built around his grandpa’s old tool shed, where he was taught to live life simply and had a down-to-earth upbringing.

Only when his close friend started playing him country music including some of the biggest names in the industry did Alan realize there was something to this genre, something he could not quite put his finger on.

While listening to Gene Watson and Hank Williams Jr., Alan became inspired to put together a band. Despite the growing obsession, Alan postponed making a bold move and kicking off his musical career until he was 27 years of age, when he and his wife decided to move to Nashville.

If you were to ever ask Alan about the first time he had laid eyes on Denise, you would be guaranteed a story that would cause you to smile. One day, as he was sitting down for a meal at a Dairy Queen restaurant, Alan spotted Denise sitting at a table close by.

He could not make up his mind as to how to grab her attention, so he did the first thing he could think of – he tossed a coin her way.

The coin toss stunt must have had a positive effect on Denise since after she left the restaurant, Alan followed her home, asked her out, and she was quick to agree. After that incident, the rest of history.

The lovebirds enjoyed each other’s company to a great extent, driving around town in Alan’s beloved 1955 Thunderbird convertible. Come 1979, the two walked down the aisle, and said “I do,” excited to spend the rest of their lives together as husband and wife.

After the two tied the knot and moved to the country music capital of the world, Alan was juggling different jobs trying to make ends meet.

He was working at the Nashville Network’s mailroom when suddenly, his wife came home from work with exciting news: as a flight attendant, she often met people from all over the world, and she experienced a chance encounter with Glen Campbell. The Rhinestone Cowboy heard about Alan and offered his help immediately.

Campbell wanted to help Alan to get on the right track, by which he meant to sign a deal with Arista Records. It was this very same label that released his first single, “Blue Blooded Woman,” which came out in 1989.

One short year later, Alan had a parent album released, Here In The Real World, which consisted of his first chart-topping single, “I’d Love You All Over Again.” However, despite his rise toward fame, Alan’s life was far from perfect.

Alan Jackson produced four more number one hits, which were then followed by his first album that topped country charts titled A Lot About Livin’. He continued to rule the country music scene all throughout the 1990’s, singing singles that gained worldwide recognition like “Chattahoochee.”

It was this very same single that had won both Song and Single Of The Year at the CMAs in 1994. The next year was a highly significant one for Alan, who gained membership into the prestigious Grand Ole Opry and booked a 100-date U.S. tour.

While his tour profited him a cool $40 million, Alan was never one to be blown away by cold hard cash. In spite of this, the life he led of fame and fortune confused the man who used to stand behind his word and put everything he held dear to his heart at jeopardy because of a foolish mistake.

This decade brought him his three cherished daughters who he values more than anything, but it also nearly tore his entire family apart.

Mattie Denise, the oldest, was born in 1990. Alexandra Jane “Ali” came into the family three years later, and Dani Grace was the last child to join the Jackson crew in 1997.

For a while, it seemed as though life does not get any sweeter than this – Alan Jackson was a successful musician in his field who has made an international name for himself, his wife, Denise, was supportive of her husband despite him often being away, and their three girls were healthy and chipper.

After almost two decades of being married to the woman who stole his heart that eventful day in Dairy Queen, Jackson had a slip. The man had a fling, one that was short-lived, but caused long-term damage, nonetheless.

When news of his adultery hit the fan, Jackson admitted his work commitments pressured him greatly and caused him to seek comfort in other places. Devastated by the news, Denise had enough and the two separated in 1998. But then, something unexpected happened.

After several months, Denise and Alan met up in private and had a serious talk. Coming to terms with the fact they still love each other immensely, the pair decided to try and patch things up.

Eventually, they reconciled, which Denis later elaborated about her 2007 memoir, It’s All About Him: Finding The Love Of My Life. Denise shared how difficult it was putting everything in the past and looking forward into the future, which helped her move past the events that nearly tore up her marriage.

Alan’s wife, Denise, revealed everything about their marriage and family life in the tell-all book It’s All About Him: Finding the Love of My Life.

Despite the fact that she’s intelligent and successful in her own right, the book’s title implies that Denise has chosen to reduce herself to her relationship with her famous husband. However, fans didn’t seem to mind as Denise’s writing received largely positive reviews and it revealed quite a lot…

In her book, Denise revealed the effects that sudden fame had on her marriage and self-esteem.

She said, “Alan has such a strong personality, and the more his career grew, the more insecure I felt, and the more I absorbed myself into his world. My dreams became his dreams, and it was all about him and his goals, and I kind of lost myself.” We hope that this book, despite its Alan-centered title, gave Denise the self-care she needed.

The affair was not the only event that affected Alan Jackson’s life considerably. Following the events of the 9/11 attack, Jackson released a song titled “Where Were You (When the World Stopped Turning),” which achieved him mainstream recognition and success.

The song was an emotional tribute to the victims of the terror attack and dedicated to their torn up loved ones who had to deal with the endless voids that formed in their hearts. The song was later voted Best Country Song at the Grammy Awards.

Ali was not the only Jackson member who was in the spotlight for unfortunate reasons. Sadly,  his wife Denise was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2010, which caused the Jackson family to undergo yet another difficult time.

After two long, hard years of battling the horrible disease, Denise was given the best news she could imagine – her cancer was finally gone. Her appreciative husband later chronicled her battle with the disease as “the hardest thing [he’s] ever been through” and applauded her as “the toughest person [he] know[s].”

After Denise’s recovery, Alan opened up to his fans about how his wife was doing. “She’s doing great,” he revealed, optimistically.

“… Of course, you have to get a scan every few months to check on everything, and it’s all been clear and looking good. She didn’t lose all her hair, but it did get pretty thin. She’s looking better now. She’s probably more healthy than she’s ever been now because she watches what she eats and does, and now she’s wearing me out! Everything’s looking good. I appreciate everybody’s prayers and concerns.”

Before daughter Ali revealed the truth about her father, it was Jackson who was upfront about his experience raising three daughters. In his 2012 album, Thirty Miles West, Alan included a track that he wrote primarily for his girls, which he titled “Her Life’s A Song.”

Jackson later gave an interview to promote the record, and he spoke of how far they have all come into their own. His youngest, Dani, was apparently following in his musical footsteps, he said proudly.

In the same interview Alan gave while promoting his new album, the celebrated singer discussed looking forward to watching his girls grow and become independent women. “We’ve raised them to go out and take on the world,” he noted.

“That’s what you want them to do, just be happy and healthy. I think we’ll be fine with it.” Since their daughters’ way of upbringing was something both parents agreed upon firmly, Alan and Denise decided to get rid of their extravagant Nashville estate and purchase a more modest home instead.

Alan and Denise’s eldest daughter, Mattie, is all grown up! The young woman leads a busy life as she’s the author of the book Lemons on Friday: Trusting God Through My Greatest Heartbreak. Mattie is also a podcast host and blogger for NaSHEville.

In the past year, she started dating someone new after the tragic loss of her husband three and a half years ago, an event that her father helped her get through.

Mattie is the co-founder of NaSHEville, along with Brooke Tometich. Both women maintain that NaSHEville is a space for country women like themselves, and it is a platform for females without being a “modern feminist movement.”

Mattie credits her ability to create such a platform to the advice her father gave her when she was young. He said, “You’ve got a gift, sugar, but you haven’t lived life yet; go find something you want to write about.” Which is exactly what Mattie did.

Alan got even closer with his middle daughter, Ali, while writing a song for her wedding day. Ali got married in 2020, which resulted in many changes and postponements to the ceremony.

Luckily, the family still managed to celebrate the nuptials at a small backyard party for a few select people. Before the ceremony, Alan wrote a song that was used for the father-daughter dance at both Mattie and Ali’s weddings. It will presumably be used for Dani’s wedding, as well.

Not a whole lot is known about Ali’s life today, as the Country princess is extremely private. None of her social media accounts are public but photos of her can be seen on her sister, Mattie’s, social media.

It seems that the Jackson family is still extremely close as Mattie routinely posts photos of the family together and social outings with her sisters. That being said, Ali did surprise fans with an uncharacteristically public appearance…

In 2021, Ali shocked Alan’s fans by joining him on stage to perform a father-daughter duet for Alan’s Nashville audience. The Jacksons performed the very song that Alan wrote for his girls’ weddings, titled “You’ll Always Be My Baby (Written for Daughters’ Weddings)”.

While the father and daughter sang, Jackson family photos flashed across the screen in the background, to the audience’s delight. In the end, Alan lovingly kissed Ali on the forehead before continuing with the rest of the show.

As the youngest of the Jackson clan, 24-year-old Dani attends public events along with the rest of her family. Like Ali, Dani chooses to keep her personal life private but can be seen in various photos on Mattie’s social media, which is set to public.

While not much is known about Dani’s professional endeavors, it seems that she isn’t interested in following in her father’s musical footsteps. At least not for now, that is…

Notwithstanding the progress and acknowledgment Alan Jackson had received until then, it was only in 2017 that Jackson was inducted into the Country Music Hall of Fame. In an interview with Rolling Stone Magazine, the superstar explained that in spite of all his success, he still did not “feel quite worthy” of the honor given.

One person who had plenty to say about this induction was Alan’s daughter Ali, who went on to her Facebook page to express her deepest thoughts on the matter.

Ali wasn’t always the easiest daughter. In 2013, the middle child proved to have quite a rebellious side as she was charged with assaulting a police officer, resisting arrest and consuming alcohol while still being under the legal drinking age.

Since her character seemed mature enough to avoid future temptation and she appeared to be overall remorseful for giving her family grief, Ali reached a plea agreement with a relatively small slap on the wrist. Instead of jail time, she received community service along with anger management and alcohol safety courses.

In her post, Ali wrote: “The world sees you as follows: a great musician, an impressive songwriter, and a talented vocalist,” she wrote, adding, “I see you as: my best friend, the guy that taught me that how you treat people matters more than anything else and taught me just how to stand on my own two feet.”

But Ali did not stop there. It was important for her to stress why she felt the need to protect her father’s name, despite any of his past wrongdoings.

Ali used her voice to pass forward a moving message, one that described her father, Alan Jackson, as “every daughter’s dream father.” Ali knew she could count on her dad no matter what.

He was a constant reminder of what a role model should be like – one that fills their home with love, understanding – and, of course, music. She praised Jackson for “making sure [they] knew whatever [their] dream was could be [their] reality.” It is no surprise this particular post went viral. But then, she got surprising replies.

Reading his precious daughter’s admiring message, it did not take long for many of Jackson’s fans to share similar positive feedback in response. One user wrote: “His songs are wonderful and you knew he was a dedicated family man.

You can see why his daughters are so proud of him.” Another chimed in, noting in appreciation how nice it was to read such words from the singer’s daughter: “What a beautiful tribute to Alan Jackson, love his music.” But now…

Alan and Denise Jackson’s three daughters may have lived in their father’s shadow while growing up, but the trusty trio has great things lined up in their future. Eldest daughter Mattie has proven to have both beauty and brains and became a qualified sommelier.

Putting her skills to good use, the girl now owns her own Nashville wine bar. As for Ali and Dani – both have recently spread their wings and fled the nest. As for their father…

Alan continues to try and make up for his wrongdoings in the past by being the best possible father and husband he can be.

As for his music, he was quoted saying: “I’ve always tried to make music the first priority – not being a star, not being in the spotlight, just trying to make music that I loved, that the fans like, and not compromise that to fit into something else.” On that note, we look forward to seeing what great things Alan Jackson has up and coming.

In 2020, Denise and Alan celebrated their 41st anniversary by renewing their vows. While it’s an accomplishment for any marriage to last that long, it’s a particularly big milestone for the Jackson couple due to their temporary break-up.

Alan and Denise credit their marriage’s strength to couples therapy, their desire to stay together, and their commitment to one another. Hopefully, these renewed vows will be kept, as the original ones were tragically broken.

Alan Jackson is known for his heartfelt songs about the things he cares most about: his family, his faith, and his country. As well as having written songs for his daughters, Alan also wrote a song for Denise called “When I Saw You Leaving (For Nisey)”.

Alan also penned a ballad for his late father, which he titled “Drive (For Daddy Gene)”. However, the country star unexpectedly put his music on hold and refused to release what had already been recorded.

After the tragic loss of both his mother and son-in-law, Alan decided to take a break from music in order to focus on being there for his, and his family’s, grief.

Alan explained, “When you’re the daddy and you kind of feel like you’re the head man, and you’ve got your wife and daughters and everybody, you really hurt more for them going through it. It just took a long time for me to feel good again, to feel like I actually wanted to sit down and write something.”

Unfortunately, Alan’s health has taken a turn for the worse in recent years. The country singer has been diagnosed with Charcot-Marie-Tooth disease, a nerve condition that affects one’s ability to walk.

Alan explained, “It’s genetic that I inherited from my daddy… There’s no cure for it, but it’s been affecting me for years. And it’s getting more and more obvious. And I know I’m stumbling around on stage. And now I’m having a little trouble balancing, even in front of the microphone, and so I just feel very uncomfortable.”

After Alan’s diagnosis, his fans took to the internet to show support for their idol. One person posted, “I’m so sorry about your CMT Alan Jackson please take care of yourself Alan Jackson don’t push yourself out for me and your other fans and your family.”

While another wrote, “He was sitting for a few songs at the benefit concert but I didn’t think too much of it but at least I know why now.” It seems that Alan’s fans intend on being there for him through thick and thin!

After a wildly successful career that spanned decades, and given his current health issues, fans can’t help but ask, is it time for Alan Jackson to retire?

Well, it seems that Alan himself doesn’t have the answer, as he’s said, “I didn’t really worry about it one way or the other. If I hadn’t ever made another album, I just wouldn’t have made it. But when it felt right, it felt right. I think I would have been happy either way.